Kais Poem

Kai wrote a poem the other day, I thought I would share it. it made me very sad. but I feel its a good insite into how autistic children feel. My name is Kaito Jago, I am a special boy, I want to be normal so I am liked to, …

The stages of grief!

Grief we go through when our child has a learning difficulties is the same as the grief one goes through when dealing with death according to a survey I read online. I myself think differently nevertheless, I have seen people going through some of the symptons I will talk about …

The Amazing IT and Math Kid

Kai has just got his school report and while everything is below avg it comes to Math and IT Kai is amazing he puts me to shame, Kai’s report, Kai tries hard and has friends, well I know thats just to keep the parent happy, I know Kai does not …

Parents fear of learning difficulties!

Why do we fear learning difficulties?   according to menace 70% of parents fear learning difficulties(LSD) as they feel unwelcome in public.  they have also been made to leave public areas due to their child’s behaviour. I understand this too not that I have been made to leave but on many …

In denial of learning difficulties!

Why are we in denial? I am not sure if I was ever in denial about Kai and when he was diagnosed with Autism as I knew he always had learning difficulties nevertheless, I have spoken to a number of families and when they received the news or even when …

Next post

All, I have talked about Envy, Blame and Guilt, next posts will be on Denial, Fear, Morning, Bargaining, anger, Isolation and Fight, these are all what parents and people with Learning Difficulties  go through I touched a little on Denial in my Blame post.  I hope you like my posts so …

Envy and why its bad?

I am sure my parents felt this when I was growing up, I am not sure why I was not a normal child and why I caused my parents so much grief, a few months ago, I was at my parents house, and we were talking about who was the …

Blaiming each other for Kai’s autism!

Well what is the blame game and why we do it? Hiroko and I have now been married 1o years we had our anniversary in Spain last week. We were speaking to a couple in Spain as there son has a child that they think has learning difficulties, but they …